Why are you still single?

Yes, that thing people ask not realizing that question might actually be very offensive.

That question can presume that something is wrong with you.

You: “If I knew why, I probably wouldn’t be single anymore… …. (inconsiderate …. — followed with an inappropriate word that thankfully you were sane enough not to say out loud).”

What ever intention that person has with this question, it’s up to you how you decide to interpret it. You can perceive it as negative — ‘cause this ish is sensitive — or as a compliment.

But just for a minute imagine, this person asking you “Why are you still single?”, is genuinely interested in your take on your love life. No sneaky sharp pokes intended.

The answer to this question can reveal a lot about You.

What you do with this newfound revelation about yourself can get you closer, from being single, to being in a loving passionate relationship with your special someone.


  • taking responsibility for your role in your past relationship(s) not working out
  • playing the victim
  • making poor decisions
  • not taking any blame for being single
  • not realizing your lack of essential skills needed for a supreme love life

You’re giving away your power by not taking responsibility and blaming others and situations for how things are.

If you’re willing to look inside and be honest with yourself about your role in your “single-situation” + are willing to look for solutions within, than you have the power to change your love life.

Now it’s your turn. Close your eyes + take a deep breath. Now open your eyes and write down your answer to:

Why are you still single?

Take back your power by being completely honest with yourself — no matter how painful it may be.

Let me know your answer in the comments below. I’d love to hear from you.

Thank you So much for your Love, Share and Perspective.
It means the world to me!

❤ & XX



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